Man knows contact with his old girlfriend, now married, would affect his current seven-year relationship but fears he'll always wonder what could have been.

I’m not looking to rekindle a relationship. I just feel there was never official closure to our relationship, and I suspect it has always affected my subsequent relationships. I love my girlfriend and feel guilty for feeling this way.

I just feel there was never official closure to our relationship, and I suspect it has always affected my subsequent relationships.

I've been thinking a lot about my first love, although I've been in my current relationship for seven years. Will this feeling pass? Will I always think she was the one? Should I reach out and try to ask for closure?